My CaReLeSs WhIsPeR-Think UNIT TRUST, Think Agnes

*For better 'penghayatan' (wat's the word for this in english?)...take ur time, read slowly and visualise it in ya head if possible (da character doesn't have to be me la duhh, juz fyi) bet the effect will be better ;p

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Would you take me to the floor..
And share me a dance to our favorite song?

Would you sing me a song of love..
And make it one we’ll remember for eternity?

Would you peck me on the cheek..
And tell me I’m the most beautiful girl in your eyes?

Would me watch me walk down the aisle..
And wear me a ring on the finger?

Would you look me in the eyes..
And tell me that you love me?

Would you leave me with a smile..
And turn it into a memory that lives forever?

If there's no more tomorrow…

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well... its a nice poem u wrote there :)

it will obviously be damn romantic if a guy does that to a gal rite??

jus wondering...if ever a guy does all that.... wat is the gal gonna give him??  

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What do you wish the gal will give the guy in return?

From the gal's part, it has been implied in the poem that she has given him her life.Wedding ring la wei...hahaha!  

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shes obviously gonna give him her life n love, i know that....

my point is rather deep.
many of the gals these days that i see dun really know how to show their love...they can be loyal n stuff, but they r seriously lacking in communicating their feelings n making ppl feel it.

thats y u'll always see couples saying "u dun love me as much as b4 anymore" or "y arent u like that guy/gal, he's/she's so romantic"

wat im saying is, dun jus love somebody u have feelings for. Make sure u r able to show it.
like the phrase goes " shower him/her with love"

jus my 2 cents worth. :)  

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Okok..now i think i know who this anonymous fella is already hehe ;p

"they can be loyal n stuff, but they r seriously lacking in communicating their feelings n making ppl feel it."

-->Hmm...u mean they need to communicate their feelings only then you are able to feel their love? True to certain extent, but talking about the existence of love, keep in mind that they agreed to be in that relationship becoz of love in the first place :)On the contrary, if there's no love, they wouldn't have been with you rite? (forget about the spare-tyre cases la haha) And whatver you do, even if you die for them, they might not feel it too.

"many of the gals these days that i see dun really know how to show their love"

-->This is a debatable topic though about not knowing how to show their love to their conterparts. In my opinion,not everyone can display their affections the way we'd want them to.

I read somewhere that if they dun love you the way you want them to,it's not that they dun" Same applies to..when you're not doing certain stuff to show your love, it doesn't mean that you dun love him/her. You have to really understand your partner in this case. Is he/she the affectionate kind? Is he/she the demonstrative kind or not at all? Let's say, you know he/she is not the sappy n sentimental kind and won't go to the extent to do romantic stuff, then u shouldn't feel suspicious and ask questions such as "if u love me y dun u show it? or "y dun u go get the moon for me and prove it bla bla bla.."

To that so called dunno-how-to-show-love person,to ask 'where are you now',' have you taken ur lunch', 'what time are you coming home' can mean showing love.

My bottom line is...it's not that they dunno how to show/communicate their feelings/love, they have a their own diff ways of showing it. So it all depends on the level of understanding between the 2 individuals. A person (may i be included here hehehe)would not need tangible things or sweet talks or even poem from the other party in order to feel loved.  

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ur opinion is true to some extent too cutie_rocker.

Have u seen Shawshank Redemption?
Theres a part where Andy said he kill his wife.

Not physically, but emotionally.

He's a good example of the ppl that im talking about.

Andy was a good man, love his wife, loyal n so on. But he didnt know how to show his affection for her and that drove her away from him.

This things happened very frequently. U can read it in dillema section everytime.

" On the contrary, if there's no love, they wouldn't have been with you rite? "

Wrong. The earliest part of a relationship, u wont feel this things. onli when the relationship is going on from a year to another, u'll feel this strain going on.

"In my opinion,not everyone can display their affections the way we'd want them to."

This also means, if u dun know how to show ur affection to ur partner.....it means u dun understand wat he wants. simple as that ;)  

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Guess i should watch that movie someday.

"Wrong. The earliest part of a relationship, u wont feel this things. onli when the relationship is going on from a year to another, u'll feel this strain going on."

--> Of coz I know this thing comes later, after some time. Anyway, I wasn't discussing about the strain you'll face in this section. What I meant by if there's no love, they wont be with you is...they agree to accept your proposal becoz they have feelings in the earlier stage. What happens later, it could like like what you said lor..the strain might be felt :)

"if u dun know how to show ur affection to ur partner.....it means u dun understand wat he wants. simple as that ;)"

Agree. Like I said, no understanding and lack of communication. The gal dunno what he wans, the guy dunno the fact that the gal has her 'own way' on how to show affection.  

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" Agree. Like I said, no understanding and lack of communication. The gal dunno what he wans, the guy dunno the fact that the gal has her 'own way' on how to show affection. "

This is not my point.
Let me give u an example.

Alrite, lets say u met this guy, he treats u well n all those other stuff. so u like him too n both of u got married.

This guy shows his love to u by being loyal, he provides u with every material needs and of coz financially too.
This guy is a homely guy, love playing with the kids n saving up money for their future.

U on the other hand, love hanging out with ur frens. U go our for drinks, movies, bowling or pool, clubbing, or even jus hanging out at their place.

Do u seriously think this marriage is gonna work???
You...being with somebody who isnt romantic at all. But on the other hand, he thinks he's doing alot for this relationship by being loyal n supports every of ur financial needs.

Dont u ever hope he will change and do stuff 2gether with u??? Change, meaning understand wat u like and do it with u???
He on the other hand love u to stay at home like him, hanging out in the living room every nite in almost urwhole life???

now... do u get my point here. doesnt mean somebody shows his/her love differently is a good thing. IT IS NOT. Mayb at the very early part of ur relationship. But in later years or months. U seriously will hope he/she will understand wat u wan n provide it for u. Vice versa.  

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what i think is, if either of the 2 persons in a relationship couldnt feel the love shown by his/her partner -> sumthing like different channel in communicating love, then that is not a perfect match lar... if later the person met another guy/gal who has the same channel with him/her 1, then chances for him/her to choose the new person would be definitely high, bcos he/she would feel much happier togather with a person with the same love channel...  

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